Things I Learned
During this unique year, I've been reminded of the importance of:
- recognizing the tender mercies of the Lord
- being humble
- listening to the voice of the Lord and His Spirit
- studying His words
- listening to others
- seeing people
- being kind
- caring
- looking to God
- praying and fasting
- being patient
- continuing on, pressing forward with faith
- coming unto Jesus Christ and believing in Him
- remembering and trusting that we are in the Lord's hands
- remembering Him (and that He has not forgotten us)
- expressing gratitude
- giving compliments
- praising God
- being still and quiet
- learning from the journey and any challenges that come
- seeing the good and being the good
- appreciating and feeling connected to generations gone before
- working and waiting
- being united even when we're different and far away
- building and maintaining relationships
- reading good books
- having good conversations and discussions
- visiting beautiful and peaceful places
Family / Relationships
Grandma Kunzler passed away on January 9. It was a real blessing (more than we knew at the time) to be able to be together with all of her posterity in January to celebrate her life and goodness and remember the things she taught us--love the Lord, love each other, love truth. Beginning in March, I was grateful for weekly family Zoom calls, as well as outdoor adventures scattered throughout the year. Even the drive-by visits were nice. I got to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with my parents in St. George which was rejuvenating. I was grateful for regular walks and some hiking trips with friends, as well as a weekly Come, Follow Me study group via Zoom.
Grandma Kunzler passed away on January 9. It was a real blessing (more than we knew at the time) to be able to be together with all of her posterity in January to celebrate her life and goodness and remember the things she taught us--love the Lord, love each other, love truth. Beginning in March, I was grateful for weekly family Zoom calls, as well as outdoor adventures scattered throughout the year. Even the drive-by visits were nice. I got to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with my parents in St. George which was rejuvenating. I was grateful for regular walks and some hiking trips with friends, as well as a weekly Come, Follow Me study group via Zoom.
Traveling
I missed traveling this year, but luckily I didn't have any plans to go anywhere when the year started, so there was a little less disappointment. I did get my passport renewed in January, so I'm ready to go when I can again! ;) Even for an introvert, it was a little claustrophobic to be home so much, but I'm more grateful than ever for my warm and comfortable home, as well as good books and hiking trails. I'm grateful to have traveled so much last year and look forward to seeing some new places someday (maybe Iceland, Norway, Denmark, Croatia, Thailand, Patagonia, Machu Picchu, and Mt. Kilimanjaro).
This year, getting out of the house consisted of:
Reading
This year I read the Book of Mormon three times. It was such a blessing to study this incredible book this year! I can't think of anything better to help put life into perspective and deal with the daily challenges. This year, I was particularly looking for "the great things the Lord hath done... the covenants of the Lord... and Jesus--the Christ, the Eternal God." I found that and more!
- The office - I was still there in person almost every weekday. I shifted from Trax to driving to work in March and was grateful for more time in the mornings and less traffic. I was grateful for chances to observe the construction progress at the Salt Lake Temple. It really has been a unique year on Temple Square.
- The mountains - I love the mountains. Even with more people on the trails, I found beautiful places of solitude and peace in some favorite spots--Albion Basin, Willow Heights Lake, Mill D, Lake Solitude, Dog Lake, Timpanogos, the Suspension Bridge, and the Draper trails.
- St. George - I made it to St. George three times this year--Father's Day weekend, Thanksgiving and Christmas. I'm grateful for a place to get away and relax and be with family.
Reading
This year I read the Book of Mormon three times. It was such a blessing to study this incredible book this year! I can't think of anything better to help put life into perspective and deal with the daily challenges. This year, I was particularly looking for "the great things the Lord hath done... the covenants of the Lord... and Jesus--the Christ, the Eternal God." I found that and more!
The Lord is mindful of all of His children--from Lehi, Nephi, Laman, Lemuel, Jacob, Enos, King Benjamin, Zeniff, Abinadi, Alma, Alma the Younger, Amulek, the sons of Mosiah, the Anti-Nephi-Lehies and their sons, Helaman, Mormon, the Brother of Jared, Ether, Moroni, Joseph Smith, to each one of us. He guided them in the wilderness. He guides us. He provides commandments, prophets, His Spirit, light, peace, strength. We can believe Him and trust Him and follow Him. He keeps His promises. He is with us. If we will listen, see, open our hearts, give place, seek diligently, choose Him, wait for Him... He will be there. All things testify of Christ. All that is good comes from Him. Jesus Christ is THE way, the truth, and the life.
One of my big takeaways and something I look forward to studying further next year is the constant invitation to "come unto Christ." What does that mean? How do we do that?
In addition to this study, I read 95 books. Here are some of my favorites (in no particular order):
- Saints, Volume 2
- The Divine Gift of Forgiveness by Neil L. Andersen
- The Millennial Messiah by Bruce R. McConkie
- The Gateway We Call Death by Russell M. Nelson
- Eve and Adam by Melinda Wheelwright Brown
- Finding Christ Through the Book of Mormon by Susan Easton Black
- What the Scriptures Teach Us About Adversity by S. Michael Wilcox
- What Seek Ye? by S. Michael Wilcox
- The Founder of Our Peace by John Hilton III
- The Power of Stillness by Jacob Hess, Carrie Skarda, Kyle Anderson, Ty Mansfield
- I Saw a Pillar of Light by Robert L. Millet
- Almighty, Redeemer, and Spirit by David Butler
- Morality: Restoring the Common Good in Divided Times by Jonathan Sacks
- The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
- You're Not Listening by Kate Murphy
- Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
- The Great Influenza by John M. Barry
- Real Change by Sharon Salzberg
- Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
- The Good Neighbor: The Life and Work of Fred Rogers by Maxwell King
- The Shape of Mercy by Susan Meissner
- While We're Far Apart by Lynn Austin
- If I Were You by Lynn Austin
- A Light to My Path by Lynn Austin
- What the Wind Knows by Amy Harmon
- The Other Side of the Bridge by Camron Wright
- The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind by William Kamkwamba
- Mustaches for Maddie by Chad Morris and Shelly Brown
I was also grateful for those who recognized and shared goodness this year. With so much that was negative and discouraging, there were many that shared hope in large and small ways. Those examples in word and deed were inspiring and encouraging to me.
Learning / Service
I learned a lot this year and have a new appreciation for challenges others face. I found that I needed to be more intentional with service this year. I could have done more, but I found meaningful one-on-one opportunities to reach out to neighbors and friends and family members, as well as spending time learning about others' trials and giving where I could.
I learned a lot this year and have a new appreciation for challenges others face. I found that I needed to be more intentional with service this year. I could have done more, but I found meaningful one-on-one opportunities to reach out to neighbors and friends and family members, as well as spending time learning about others' trials and giving where I could.
- Temples - This year I attended the temple regularly in January, February, and March. Since then I have really missed attending the temple, but I appreciate its blessings and peace even more.
- Service - While I couldn't be at the temple, I made an effort to index more and participate in family history work, part of which was helping to type up some of my Dad's harvested memories, which was really fun. I have a renewed commitment to consistently write in my journal. I spent time listening to friends. I spent time reading and learning about people and organizations that need help. I'd like to do more next year. I recognized even more the sacrifices and generosity of others and the small things that people do to lift and inspire others. I'm grateful for these examples and hope to better express my gratitude next year.
- Church - I enjoyed teaching Sunday School again this year--two classes in person and three classes via Zoom. My testimony of and love for the The Book of Mormon has grown. I know this book is the word of God, it brings us closer to Him, and was written for our day.
- Fitness and Nature - Hiking and walking were lifesavers this year. I tried to avoid weekend hiking crowds, but long summer nights were a great time to explore and find peace. I worked hard to try to keep myself and others around me healthy. I hope to work on being even healthier next year.






















