I'm grateful for some experiences this week that have made me think and want to be better:
1. I love Trax, not only to avoid the traffic and weather, but because it gives me so much time to read! I probably get too tied to my books or Gospel Library though and want to be more aware of those around me. A sweet girl sat by me this week. I was glued to my phone and she sat quietly on her phone, too, I think, for most of the morning ride. As I started to pack up and to get ready to get off at my stop she turned to me and said, "What were you reading in the Gospel Library today? What did you learn? What did you like? I'm asking you to teach me!" WOW! It was so wonderful! It was an unexpected, but welcome conversation. I wish we could have meaningful and thoughtful conversations with strangers (and friends) all the time! I was so surprised by her question that I didn't really know what to say, but I was grateful! Ever since then I have tried to not only notice those I'm sitting by and be a little less book-ish, but also be sure that when I close my book or phone I have something that I could share or teach someone else.
2. I love the song, "I'll Go Where You Want Me To Go." I've sung it many times and in many settings, but for some reason today when we sang it at work it had increased meaning. I'll go where You want me to go. Truly, what does He want me to say? Not, what do I think, but what does He think and want expressed? Where does He want me to work? What does He want me to do while I'm there? I'll go. I'll be loyal to Him (like Elizabeth Ann Claridge McCune's father)!
3. We don't need to wait for trials to make us better, we can and should proactively each day be working to overcome the natural man. "For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father" (Mosiah 3:19). That's the goal and our purpose here - to learn and to grow and to become more like Him. Sometimes trials or opportunities come our way to help us along that path, but I'm grateful for the reminder that we don't need to wait. Striving to be better should already be our focus and desire and then hopefully we don't have to be compelled as often to be humble. ;)
4. What's he doing? Can we give him some money? Do you have some money? Let's go back and give him our orange. ;)
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Sunday, January 22, 2017
Sunday, January 1, 2017
Let Your Light Shine!
I’m grateful for LIGHT! A few things I think of when I think of light…
In Matthew 5:14-16 (from the Sermon on the Mount), Jesus teaches:
Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
I love these verses, and the related verse in 3 Nephi 18:24 where the Savior teaches the Nephites:
Therefore, hold up your light that it may shine unto the world. Behold I am the light which ye shall hold up—that which ye have seen me do.
A few things I take from these verses:
In 2014 Sister Neill F. Marriott quoted President Monson who said, “If you want to give a light to others, you have to glow yourself.” So, the first step….we have to glow! How do we glow, shine, fill our own lives with light?
1. We must KNOW HIM! REMEMBER HIM ALWAYS, keep our covenants.
- President James E. Faust said, “A sacred light comes to our eyes and countenances when we have a personal bond with our loving Heavenly Father and His Son.”
Some ways we can know Him and find that bond….
- study, know truth (read the scriptures and words of the prophets)
- live, love truth (live the doctrine and keep the commandments)
- have faith, repent, follow the Spirit…
- spend time praying, fasting, serving in the temple, appreciating nature and good music, serving others, doing what He would do….
- learn, obey, be humble, follow Jesus (like the sunflowers!)
- be pure, virtuous (have clean hands, pure hearts)
- truly love, serve (pray for and practice charity)
- be true to who you are as a child of God!
- be happy, grateful, anxiously engaged in good!
- SMILE
- Elder Robert D. Hales tells the story of riding his bike home from basketball practice at night when he was a boy. He said, "I would connect a small pear-shaped generator to my bicycle tire. Then as I pedaled, the tire would turn a tiny rotor, which produced electricity and emitted a single, welcome beam of light. It was a simple but effective mechanism. But I had to pedal to make it work! I learned quickly that if I stopped pedaling my bicycle, the light would go out. I also learned that when I was 'anxiously engaged' in pedaling, the light would become brighter and the darkness in front of me would be dispelled. The generation of spiritual light comes from daily spiritual pedaling. It comes from praying, studying the scriptures, fasting, and serving—from living the gospel and obeying the commandments. 'He that keepeth his commandments receiveth truth and light,” said the Lord, “and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day.'"
- Sister Elaine Dalton (YW General President at the time) taught in April 2012, “Your beauty—your “shine”—does not lie in makeup, gooey cream, or the latest clothing or hairstyles. It lies in your personal purity. When you live the standards and qualify for the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost, you can have a powerful impact in the world. Your example, even the light in your eyes, will influence others who see your “shine,” and they will want to be like you…. If you desire to make a difference in the world, you must be different from the world.”
- President Henry B. Eyring said: “Each time you choose to try to live more like the Savior, you will have your testimony strengthened. You will come in time to know for yourself that He is the Light of the World. … You will reflect to others the Light of Christ in your life.”
A few things that have brought light to my life this year:
2. Once we are glowing we need to share His light, not hide it or keep it to ourselves….
When we are filled with the light and joy of the gospel, like Lehi our first desire should be to call for our family and friends to partake of the fruit!
President Monson has given two talks on this exact subject that you might enjoy for further study:
The other talk was a Nov. 2011 BYU Devotional called “Be A Light to the World.” President Monson says: "Each of you is one of a kind. Each has had experiences unique to you and you alone. You come from varied backgrounds. And yet there is much that we have in common one with another. We know where we came from, why we are here, and where we will go when we leave this life. We know that we are children of our Heavenly Father and that He loves us. We know we want to return to Him after we leave this earthly existence. We know that what we do—and don’t do—here in mortality is of utmost importance. We also know that, should we fall short, our Savior has provided us with the precious gift of the Atonement and that, if we change our lives and our hearts and take advantage of the power of the Atonement, our sins and shortcomings will be forgiven and forgotten.
"We have in common the gospel of Jesus Christ. And we know it is our responsibility to share the truths of the gospel with others. One of the chief ways in which we can share the gospel is to be a righteous example. The Apostle Paul admonished, “Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” He also wrote that the followers of Christ should be “as lights in the world.”
"Just as turning on a light switch in a dark room will bathe the room in light, so providing an example of righteousness—and therefore being a light—can help to illuminate an increasingly dark world. Our opportunities to shine are limitless. They surround us each day, in whatever circumstance we find ourselves. As we follow the example of the Savior, ours will be the opportunity to be a light, as it were, in the lives of those around us—whether they be our own family members, our coworkers, mere acquaintances, or total strangers."
Essentially he tells us that we must be an example of the believers. In small, but meaningful ways we can share our testimonies and the hope that is in us….
- be aware, observe and serve!
- be a friend
- forget yourself and go to work!
- Maybe some of you have read the book, The Orphan Keeper by Camron Wright. A quote that has been discussed in our family since some of us read it was by a character who lost a family member and suffered a lot. She says, “‘My only journey of concern was to be like the sun, to make it through the day offering as much light and warmth and consistency for others as I could--one single day. Each day. That was all... So from that day on, I have continued to get up in the morning and offer that light, as much as I am able, in my own small way.'"
- I LOVE President Monson mentioning our uniqueness. We have different backgrounds, experiences, talents, personalities, opportunities. I think that’s on purpose. The Lord needs our uniqueness to help reflect the Savior’s light to touch different people in different places and in different ways. If we are willing and ready He will use us to bless others and bring them home to Him! He loves us. He loves each of His children! (This gives me hope. Sometimes, to those of us that may tend to be more introverted, it can be overwhelming to be seen, to shine, to not hide… but our unique talents and testimonies are needed. We truly can share and give of ourselves...in small ways that make a big difference.)
- President Faust tells the story of a 13-year-old girl waiting for the bus. A man driving by noticed that she was always smiling every day, rain or shine. Sometime later this same girl invited his daughter to a church activity...and eventually the missionaries taught the family and they were baptized. The father didn’t realize the connection at first, but is ever grateful for the girl at the bus stop who shared her smile….and more. :D
3. My last take away from the scripture in Matthew has to do with motives and why we share His light - to glorify Him!
- The world is kind of a showy place these days. Everyone is looking for the spotlight and to be their own light. In 2 Nephi 26, Nephi teaches that “priestcrafts are that men preach and set themselves up for a light unto the world, that they may get gain and praise of the world; but they seek not the welfare of Zion.”
- I think it’s important that we remember that the Lord is asking us to reflect His light. Do what He would do in order to accomplish His work and His glory - “to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”’
- In D&C 4, we’re reminded that “faith, hope, charity and love, with an eye single to the glory of God, quality [us] for the work.”
- In D&C 82, the Lord tells us to “seek...the interest of [our] neighbor, and do..all things with an eye single to the glory of God.”
- Matthew 6:22 teaches, “if...thine eye be single to the glory of God, thy whole body shall be full of light.”
- I love the metaphor in John 15 where the Lord says, “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me. I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing…. Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.”
- We need to share goodness. As Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.” But remember why we do. A pure heart will help us to accomplish God’s work and His will.
- There’s a lot more I need to learn and study about light and God’s glory in D&C 88 and 93, if you’re interested.
In closing….just a few thoughts as a reminder that there are people around us that need light. We learn in the Doctrine and Covenants 123 that “there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations… who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it—Therefore, that we should waste and wear out our lives in bringing [it] to light.” There are some who once had light, but are searching again.
Elder Bednar said to a group of BYU-Idaho students in 2002: “In a world increasingly filled with darkness, the image of Christ in [your] countenances...will radiate a light that will literally…‘chase darkness from among you.’”
Mosiah 16:9: “He is the light and the life of the world; yea, a light that is endless, that can never be darkened.”
D&C 50:24: “That which is of God is light; and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day.”
A couple of years ago an observant friend saw that I needed a new light bulb and brought one by a few days later. This might sound like a light bulb joke, but it got me thinking - How many light bulbs does it take to light the world? ;) ALL of them/each one of us!
Seriously, I hope that as we think about who we want to become in 2017 we will think about someone that might need some light and put the Savior’s light on a candlestick, on a hill, for them and others to see. We can smile, open our mouths, point others to Christ. Let’s not bury our talents, our testimonies, our light, our hope, our joy. The restored gospel of Jesus Christ, His Atonement, His love are the answers that will heal the world. I hope we will choose light, be light, follow Him, glow, shine, seek to glorify God! He will lead and guide us as we seek Him and desire to share.
The words in Matthew 5:14-16 are an invitation, a call to action. As we proactively look for ways to increase the light in our lives and share it with others I know that we will be blessed. We will find greater happiness and joy, we will help our Heavenly Father do His work, and we will bring joy to those around us.
Sister Camilla Kimball taught that we should "never suppress a generous thought."
Mother Teresa said, “Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.”
President Hinckley said, “Wear on your countenance the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ — the good news that He came into the world.”
I’m grateful for so many people - my parents, my family, my friends, many of you - who have shared your light with me, uplifted and helped lead me to Him. I'm grateful for an opportunity to share my testimony of these things. I love the Lord and His gospel. It’s truth, it’s light, it’s joy! I know this is His true church and that He is the Light and Life of the world. There’s a plan and purpose to our lives here and eternally!
- Gratefully, the days are getting longer again….and someday there will be light after work with time to go hiking! ;)
- Some of the greatest blessings in life are sunrises and sunsets. It’s fun to find a good place to enjoy them. In fact, I know of a few places and cultures where climbing to the top of the highest mountain to see the first sunrise of the new year is more important than staying up until midnight to celebrate. I’ve enjoyed that a couple of times, but was more traditional this year. ;)
- This morning I was listening to Music and the Spoken Word and heard Lloyd Newell talking about sunflowers and how they are constantly tracking and following the sun, the light! What a great reminder for us.
- Light reminds me of some happy and bright children in Ghana that I got to visit for a few days during a study abroad project with my graduate program. We were working with them and a nonprofit that builds playgrounds that generate electricity that is stored in batteries and lights the children can take home to read by. They truly appreciated light.
- I remember a lot of light on my mission in South Korea. On the day I flew through Seoul I wondered what I had gotten myself into. Coming from a tiny town in Hawaii I was now living in the second largest city in Korea - with lights and people everywhere. A few months into my mission our mission president came to visit our tiny apartment in a large apartment building complex that was just one of many in Pusan. He reminded us how the light shined brightly from our little home out to the loud, busy, crowded world around. I felt small with a limited vocabulary at that time, but was grateful for the reminder that the light of the gospel was consistent, pure, and true. The world around us has become more confused, loud, busy, and dark since then, but the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ, His love and Atonement is truly the only thing that will heal and save and bless all of our Heavenly Father’s children.
- I remember a beautiful morning several years ago in the Mt Timpanogos Temple. I was sitting in the celestial room just as the sun came up and it FILLED the whole room and my heart with hope and peace and joy.
- Light is truth, joy, happiness, direction, peace, goodness.
- Joseph Smith saw a pillar of light exactly over his head. That light has changed the world forever.
- There was a new star and a day and a night and a day that were light for the Nephites announcing the Savior’s birth.
- After three days of darkness/destruction the Nephites saw a wonderful light coming down from heaven - the Savior!
- The brother of Jared asked for light and received much more than he imagined.
- Alma the Younger and King Lamoni and his father described the joy and the “marvelous light” they found when they were converted, when they remembered and turned to Christ and their hearts were changed.
- Jesus Christ truly is the light of the world! His light is what gives life and purpose and meaning to all the rest!!
- The scriptures, the words of the prophets are full of LIGHT! Just the examples I found take up many pages. ;)
- We can share the light of Christ with others. I loved participating in the Church’s #LIGHTtheWORLD campaign. So many of the things we were asked to do pointed us directly to the Savior and his selfless example of goodness. They were small, but meaningful and intentional acts that helped us be more like Him. A few of my favorites (and some I still need to do): visit a caregiver, carry someone’s backpack, call your mom, learn about mental illness or giving sight or mobility to someone, text someone a scripture, invite a neighbor to dinner, sit by someone new, stop and listen when a child talks, ask for advice, sing, buy hand warmers to distribute, leave encouraging notes, cheer someone on, offer a prayer of pure gratitude, say nice things about someone behind their back, don’t complain, make note of people’s birthdays, be aware of someone you haven’t noticed before - get to know them.
- I was uplifted by the examples of family, friends, and strangers around me:
- I loved hearing my nieces and nephews tell me about the things they did - bringing dinner to a man who couldn’t hear or get up to make his own food, taking flowers to their primary teacher, making and distributing hygiene kits to homeless people, collecting food and toys to take to the families without much;
- I was inspired by someone in the car in front of me who had a ready-made lunch to hand to the man at the side of the freeway exit asking for money;
- I was grateful for the sweet Muslim woman who recently came from Iraq and is in an English class I teach for refugees who (on the day we were supposed to express gratitude) lifted me up with her kind expression of thanks and a hearty “MERRY CHRISTMAS!”
In Matthew 5:14-16 (from the Sermon on the Mount), Jesus teaches:
Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
I love these verses, and the related verse in 3 Nephi 18:24 where the Savior teaches the Nephites:
Therefore, hold up your light that it may shine unto the world. Behold I am the light which ye shall hold up—that which ye have seen me do.
A few things I take from these verses:
- He is the Light.
- We must share His light with the world (not hide it or forget to share it). It is needed more than ever!
- We should remember that our purpose in sharing the light is to glorify God.
In 2014 Sister Neill F. Marriott quoted President Monson who said, “If you want to give a light to others, you have to glow yourself.” So, the first step….we have to glow! How do we glow, shine, fill our own lives with light?
1. We must KNOW HIM! REMEMBER HIM ALWAYS, keep our covenants.
- President James E. Faust said, “A sacred light comes to our eyes and countenances when we have a personal bond with our loving Heavenly Father and His Son.”
Some ways we can know Him and find that bond….
- study, know truth (read the scriptures and words of the prophets)
- live, love truth (live the doctrine and keep the commandments)
- have faith, repent, follow the Spirit…
- spend time praying, fasting, serving in the temple, appreciating nature and good music, serving others, doing what He would do….
- learn, obey, be humble, follow Jesus (like the sunflowers!)
- be pure, virtuous (have clean hands, pure hearts)
- truly love, serve (pray for and practice charity)
- be true to who you are as a child of God!
- be happy, grateful, anxiously engaged in good!
- SMILE
- Elder Robert D. Hales tells the story of riding his bike home from basketball practice at night when he was a boy. He said, "I would connect a small pear-shaped generator to my bicycle tire. Then as I pedaled, the tire would turn a tiny rotor, which produced electricity and emitted a single, welcome beam of light. It was a simple but effective mechanism. But I had to pedal to make it work! I learned quickly that if I stopped pedaling my bicycle, the light would go out. I also learned that when I was 'anxiously engaged' in pedaling, the light would become brighter and the darkness in front of me would be dispelled. The generation of spiritual light comes from daily spiritual pedaling. It comes from praying, studying the scriptures, fasting, and serving—from living the gospel and obeying the commandments. 'He that keepeth his commandments receiveth truth and light,” said the Lord, “and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day.'"
- Sister Elaine Dalton (YW General President at the time) taught in April 2012, “Your beauty—your “shine”—does not lie in makeup, gooey cream, or the latest clothing or hairstyles. It lies in your personal purity. When you live the standards and qualify for the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost, you can have a powerful impact in the world. Your example, even the light in your eyes, will influence others who see your “shine,” and they will want to be like you…. If you desire to make a difference in the world, you must be different from the world.”
- President Henry B. Eyring said: “Each time you choose to try to live more like the Savior, you will have your testimony strengthened. You will come in time to know for yourself that He is the Light of the World. … You will reflect to others the Light of Christ in your life.”
A few things that have brought light to my life this year:
- Reading the Book of Mormon. This year I studied JOY! There is much! The greatest joy seems to come from gratitude, faithfulness, obedience, righteousness, food, family, work, worship, covenants, service, the temple, freedom, truth, scriptures, prophets, repentance, Christ, conversion, missionary work, the Spirit
- Visiting the Priesthood Restoration Site in Harmony, Pennsylvania and thinking about the truth and light that came to earth and that we enjoy in even greater measure now.
- Attending the temple regularly.
- Time spent in the mountains! :D
- Chances to serve.
2. Once we are glowing we need to share His light, not hide it or keep it to ourselves….
When we are filled with the light and joy of the gospel, like Lehi our first desire should be to call for our family and friends to partake of the fruit!
Peter taught in 1 Peter 3:15, “sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.”
Alma taught in Mosiah 18:8-10, “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all
places that ye may be in.”
President Monson has given two talks on this exact subject that you might enjoy for further study:
In the October 2015 General Conference he gave a talk called “Be an Example and a Light.” He highlights two scriptures - Matthew 5:14-16 and then he reads 1 Timothy 4:12 where Paul teaches:
“Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.”
President Monson says, “I believe the second scripture explains, in great part, how we can accomplish the first. We become examples of the believers by living the gospel of Jesus Christ in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, and in purity. As we do so, our lights will shine for others to see.
“Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.”
President Monson says, “I believe the second scripture explains, in great part, how we can accomplish the first. We become examples of the believers by living the gospel of Jesus Christ in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, and in purity. As we do so, our lights will shine for others to see.
The other talk was a Nov. 2011 BYU Devotional called “Be A Light to the World.” President Monson says: "Each of you is one of a kind. Each has had experiences unique to you and you alone. You come from varied backgrounds. And yet there is much that we have in common one with another. We know where we came from, why we are here, and where we will go when we leave this life. We know that we are children of our Heavenly Father and that He loves us. We know we want to return to Him after we leave this earthly existence. We know that what we do—and don’t do—here in mortality is of utmost importance. We also know that, should we fall short, our Savior has provided us with the precious gift of the Atonement and that, if we change our lives and our hearts and take advantage of the power of the Atonement, our sins and shortcomings will be forgiven and forgotten.
"We have in common the gospel of Jesus Christ. And we know it is our responsibility to share the truths of the gospel with others. One of the chief ways in which we can share the gospel is to be a righteous example. The Apostle Paul admonished, “Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” He also wrote that the followers of Christ should be “as lights in the world.”
"Just as turning on a light switch in a dark room will bathe the room in light, so providing an example of righteousness—and therefore being a light—can help to illuminate an increasingly dark world. Our opportunities to shine are limitless. They surround us each day, in whatever circumstance we find ourselves. As we follow the example of the Savior, ours will be the opportunity to be a light, as it were, in the lives of those around us—whether they be our own family members, our coworkers, mere acquaintances, or total strangers."
Essentially he tells us that we must be an example of the believers. In small, but meaningful ways we can share our testimonies and the hope that is in us….
- be aware, observe and serve!
- be a friend
- forget yourself and go to work!
- Maybe some of you have read the book, The Orphan Keeper by Camron Wright. A quote that has been discussed in our family since some of us read it was by a character who lost a family member and suffered a lot. She says, “‘My only journey of concern was to be like the sun, to make it through the day offering as much light and warmth and consistency for others as I could--one single day. Each day. That was all... So from that day on, I have continued to get up in the morning and offer that light, as much as I am able, in my own small way.'"
- I LOVE President Monson mentioning our uniqueness. We have different backgrounds, experiences, talents, personalities, opportunities. I think that’s on purpose. The Lord needs our uniqueness to help reflect the Savior’s light to touch different people in different places and in different ways. If we are willing and ready He will use us to bless others and bring them home to Him! He loves us. He loves each of His children! (This gives me hope. Sometimes, to those of us that may tend to be more introverted, it can be overwhelming to be seen, to shine, to not hide… but our unique talents and testimonies are needed. We truly can share and give of ourselves...in small ways that make a big difference.)
- President Faust tells the story of a 13-year-old girl waiting for the bus. A man driving by noticed that she was always smiling every day, rain or shine. Sometime later this same girl invited his daughter to a church activity...and eventually the missionaries taught the family and they were baptized. The father didn’t realize the connection at first, but is ever grateful for the girl at the bus stop who shared her smile….and more. :D
3. My last take away from the scripture in Matthew has to do with motives and why we share His light - to glorify Him!
- The world is kind of a showy place these days. Everyone is looking for the spotlight and to be their own light. In 2 Nephi 26, Nephi teaches that “priestcrafts are that men preach and set themselves up for a light unto the world, that they may get gain and praise of the world; but they seek not the welfare of Zion.”
- I think it’s important that we remember that the Lord is asking us to reflect His light. Do what He would do in order to accomplish His work and His glory - “to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”’
- In D&C 4, we’re reminded that “faith, hope, charity and love, with an eye single to the glory of God, quality [us] for the work.”
- In D&C 82, the Lord tells us to “seek...the interest of [our] neighbor, and do..all things with an eye single to the glory of God.”
- Matthew 6:22 teaches, “if...thine eye be single to the glory of God, thy whole body shall be full of light.”
- I love the metaphor in John 15 where the Lord says, “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me. I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing…. Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.”
- We need to share goodness. As Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.” But remember why we do. A pure heart will help us to accomplish God’s work and His will.
- There’s a lot more I need to learn and study about light and God’s glory in D&C 88 and 93, if you’re interested.
In closing….just a few thoughts as a reminder that there are people around us that need light. We learn in the Doctrine and Covenants 123 that “there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations… who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it—Therefore, that we should waste and wear out our lives in bringing [it] to light.” There are some who once had light, but are searching again.
Elder Bednar said to a group of BYU-Idaho students in 2002: “In a world increasingly filled with darkness, the image of Christ in [your] countenances...will radiate a light that will literally…‘chase darkness from among you.’”
Mosiah 16:9: “He is the light and the life of the world; yea, a light that is endless, that can never be darkened.”
D&C 50:24: “That which is of God is light; and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day.”
A couple of years ago an observant friend saw that I needed a new light bulb and brought one by a few days later. This might sound like a light bulb joke, but it got me thinking - How many light bulbs does it take to light the world? ;) ALL of them/each one of us!
Seriously, I hope that as we think about who we want to become in 2017 we will think about someone that might need some light and put the Savior’s light on a candlestick, on a hill, for them and others to see. We can smile, open our mouths, point others to Christ. Let’s not bury our talents, our testimonies, our light, our hope, our joy. The restored gospel of Jesus Christ, His Atonement, His love are the answers that will heal the world. I hope we will choose light, be light, follow Him, glow, shine, seek to glorify God! He will lead and guide us as we seek Him and desire to share.
The words in Matthew 5:14-16 are an invitation, a call to action. As we proactively look for ways to increase the light in our lives and share it with others I know that we will be blessed. We will find greater happiness and joy, we will help our Heavenly Father do His work, and we will bring joy to those around us.
Sister Camilla Kimball taught that we should "never suppress a generous thought."
Mother Teresa said, “Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.”
President Hinckley said, “Wear on your countenance the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ — the good news that He came into the world.”
I’m grateful for so many people - my parents, my family, my friends, many of you - who have shared your light with me, uplifted and helped lead me to Him. I'm grateful for an opportunity to share my testimony of these things. I love the Lord and His gospel. It’s truth, it’s light, it’s joy! I know this is His true church and that He is the Light and Life of the world. There’s a plan and purpose to our lives here and eternally!
Sunday, August 9, 2015
Be a Light
I happened to get up right in time today to hear Lloyd Newell's message from Music and the Spoken Word and I was inspired and grateful for the light it brought into my life and the reminder to be a light to others:
"Moonlight, with its soft, silver tones and the enchanting mood it casts, has captured our fancy for centuries. It has been the subject of countless poems, songs, serenades, and evening walks. We marvel at how bright a full moon can seem sometimes, even though we know it is merely reflecting the light it receives from the sun. In fact, our full moon, at its very brightest, only reflects about 12 percent of the light that reaches it.
All around us, objects reflect or absorb light. Snow reflects almost all the light that reaches it, while black asphalt absorbs it, which explains why roads get so hot on sunny days. And what about us? How much light do we reflect? Do we brighten the world for others and share the hope and cheer of a sunny outlook? Or do we only take, pulling in energy but never giving any back?
There are countless ways to share light with others. When we extend a helping hand, when we take time to listen, when we give a sincere compliment, when we teach a child, we are reflecting light. Mother Theresa said, “Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.” Yes, even something as simple as a smile bounces light and love back into the world.
We are drawn to people who reflect joy and optimism. They seem to have a luster, a light, a glow about them. We find ourselves not only wanting to share their company but also striving to emulate their example, to shine with similar brilliance. Unlike the moon, snow, or asphalt, we can choose how much light we give. We can decide to reflect the good around us and help others see “the bright side.” Very often, when our goal is to provide as much light as we can, we inspire others to do the same. If everyone made this simple choice, perhaps our collective radiance would be enough to light up the entire world."
The weekly broadcast also included one of my favorite (and related) songs - Give, Said the Little Stream.
I also love this month's First Presidency message by President Monson - Stand as a Light.
"I would like all of the youth of the Church to know that they are children of light. As such, they have a responsibility to be “as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15). They have a duty to share the truths of the gospel. They have a calling to stand as a temple beacon, reflecting gospel light to an increasingly dark world. They have a charge to keep their light aflame and burning brightly....
With a strong testimony of the Savior and His restored gospel, you have limitless opportunities to shine. They surround you each day, in whatever circumstances you find yourselves. As you follow the example of the Savior, yours will be the opportunity to be a light, as it were, in the lives of those around you—whether they be members of your own family, classmates, co-workers, mere acquaintances, or total strangers.
When you are a light to the world, people around you will feel a special spirit that will make them want to associate with you and follow your example."
"Moonlight, with its soft, silver tones and the enchanting mood it casts, has captured our fancy for centuries. It has been the subject of countless poems, songs, serenades, and evening walks. We marvel at how bright a full moon can seem sometimes, even though we know it is merely reflecting the light it receives from the sun. In fact, our full moon, at its very brightest, only reflects about 12 percent of the light that reaches it.
All around us, objects reflect or absorb light. Snow reflects almost all the light that reaches it, while black asphalt absorbs it, which explains why roads get so hot on sunny days. And what about us? How much light do we reflect? Do we brighten the world for others and share the hope and cheer of a sunny outlook? Or do we only take, pulling in energy but never giving any back?
There are countless ways to share light with others. When we extend a helping hand, when we take time to listen, when we give a sincere compliment, when we teach a child, we are reflecting light. Mother Theresa said, “Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.” Yes, even something as simple as a smile bounces light and love back into the world.
We are drawn to people who reflect joy and optimism. They seem to have a luster, a light, a glow about them. We find ourselves not only wanting to share their company but also striving to emulate their example, to shine with similar brilliance. Unlike the moon, snow, or asphalt, we can choose how much light we give. We can decide to reflect the good around us and help others see “the bright side.” Very often, when our goal is to provide as much light as we can, we inspire others to do the same. If everyone made this simple choice, perhaps our collective radiance would be enough to light up the entire world."
The weekly broadcast also included one of my favorite (and related) songs - Give, Said the Little Stream.
I also love this month's First Presidency message by President Monson - Stand as a Light.
"I would like all of the youth of the Church to know that they are children of light. As such, they have a responsibility to be “as lights in the world” (Philippians 2:15). They have a duty to share the truths of the gospel. They have a calling to stand as a temple beacon, reflecting gospel light to an increasingly dark world. They have a charge to keep their light aflame and burning brightly....
With a strong testimony of the Savior and His restored gospel, you have limitless opportunities to shine. They surround you each day, in whatever circumstances you find yourselves. As you follow the example of the Savior, yours will be the opportunity to be a light, as it were, in the lives of those around you—whether they be members of your own family, classmates, co-workers, mere acquaintances, or total strangers.
When you are a light to the world, people around you will feel a special spirit that will make them want to associate with you and follow your example."
Saturday, June 6, 2015
Never a Bad Day
I remember being impacted by a book I read as a teenager - Living with Enthusiasm by Elder L. Tom Perry. I read it again a few years ago and just pulled it out again a couple of weeks ago. I love this book! It is full of joy and I am very grateful for the opportunity I had to personally be touched and inspired and uplifted by Elder Perry's influence in my life.
I love something that he said just a couple of years ago, “I don’t think I’ve ever had a bad day because I’ve learned something from every experience I have had. I’ve never had a day that I didn’t feel like getting out of bed and having an opportunity to accomplish something.” In learning more about his life, he definitely had trials, but he chose to make a positive difference everyday and he blessed many in large and small ways.
For example, after his first wife and daughter died he said, "The Lord is very kind. Even though some experiences are hard, He floods your mind with memories and gives you other opportunities. Life doesn’t end just because you have a tragedy—there’s a new mountain to climb. Don’t spend a lot of time sulking over what you’ve lost. Get on with climbing the next mountain.” I love that and his wonderful example of going forward, and always with great joy.
I love these tributes to him:
A few things that I will always remember and miss about Elder Perry:
I love something that he said just a couple of years ago, “I don’t think I’ve ever had a bad day because I’ve learned something from every experience I have had. I’ve never had a day that I didn’t feel like getting out of bed and having an opportunity to accomplish something.” In learning more about his life, he definitely had trials, but he chose to make a positive difference everyday and he blessed many in large and small ways.
For example, after his first wife and daughter died he said, "The Lord is very kind. Even though some experiences are hard, He floods your mind with memories and gives you other opportunities. Life doesn’t end just because you have a tragedy—there’s a new mountain to climb. Don’t spend a lot of time sulking over what you’ve lost. Get on with climbing the next mountain.” I love that and his wonderful example of going forward, and always with great joy.
I love these tributes to him:
- 9 lessons from Elder Perry
- Remembering Elder L. Tom Perry
- 5 heart-warming stories about Elder Perry shared at his memorial
- President Monson, other LDS leaders and family honor Elder L. Tom Perry at funeral
- Elder L. Tom Perry's funeral service
- Senator Mike Lee - Elder L. Tom Perry - booming through the world
- People share memories of L. Tom Perry
...and some of his final words of counsel to us:
A few things that I will always remember and miss about Elder Perry:
- his cheery smile and warm greeting
- his special way of making everyone feel comfortable
- his consistent reminder and personal example of hard work and complete dedication (including a quick jog to be right where he was needed)
- his confident booming voice and testimony wherever he went
- his constant smile and love for everyone
- his integrity and dedication to the Lord and His truths
Saturday, February 14, 2015
Love is...
...many things...today it is sleep, reading, books, scriptures, running, sunshine, family history, inspiration, service, kindness, temples, family, grandmas, flowers, cookies, music, friends...
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Happy Valentine's Day! :)
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Happy Valentine's Day! :)
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Generous Thoughts
"Never suppress a generous thought." I love this quote by Sister Camilla Kimball (as recounted in a story by Sister Bonnie Parkin in a February 2007 BYU Devotional, Personal Ministry). I think that is a real key to success and happiness in life and very related to following the Spirit and living with confidence and love.
I was thinking about that important principle today and it occurred to me that before we can act on (and not suppress) generous thoughts we need to have them to begin with! We can actively seek opportunities and build a character that looks for ways to be generous with our time, our talents, our love, our words, etc. Generous thoughts may seem to come more naturally to some, but I believe this is a talent each of us can and should work to cultivate.
What are generous thoughts? Generous thoughts are kind, forgiving thoughts. They are loving, selfless, thoughtful deeds done to make someone else happy without the thought of receiving something in return. It's having a grateful heart. It's putting someone else and their concerns and needs and happiness above our own. It's dropping what you're doing to help someone else. It's not judging and being sure to give someone the benefit of the doubt. It's finding joy in others' success. It's knowing what's happening in someone's life - really knowing. It's beyond superficial. It's genuine. It's knowing what someone needs before they ask. It's a phone call, a letter, an impromptu visit. It's a smile, a compliment, an invitation. It's working to build and maintain relationships. It's a birthday greeting to a long-lost friend. It's being courageous enough to meet someone new. It's being humble and willing to help and willing to learn. It's constantly thinking outward.
How can we cultivate generous thoughts? I think that we can cultivate this behavior and character by genuinely listening to others with the intent to care and love and serve and uplift and encourage and be a friend in everything that we do and everywhere that we go. I think we can become more generous thinkers by praying to see people the way the Lord sees them. I think we can become more generous by always speaking positively.
I think we will have more opportunities to "not suppress" generous thoughts when we are living worthy of the companionship of the Holy Ghost in our lives and following the light of Christ. He teaches us to do good continually (see Mosiah 5:2 and Moroni 7:12-13). I want to be better at seeking an attitude and character of generous thinking in my life! What do you do to cultivate generous thoughts in your life?
I was thinking about that important principle today and it occurred to me that before we can act on (and not suppress) generous thoughts we need to have them to begin with! We can actively seek opportunities and build a character that looks for ways to be generous with our time, our talents, our love, our words, etc. Generous thoughts may seem to come more naturally to some, but I believe this is a talent each of us can and should work to cultivate.
What are generous thoughts? Generous thoughts are kind, forgiving thoughts. They are loving, selfless, thoughtful deeds done to make someone else happy without the thought of receiving something in return. It's having a grateful heart. It's putting someone else and their concerns and needs and happiness above our own. It's dropping what you're doing to help someone else. It's not judging and being sure to give someone the benefit of the doubt. It's finding joy in others' success. It's knowing what's happening in someone's life - really knowing. It's beyond superficial. It's genuine. It's knowing what someone needs before they ask. It's a phone call, a letter, an impromptu visit. It's a smile, a compliment, an invitation. It's working to build and maintain relationships. It's a birthday greeting to a long-lost friend. It's being courageous enough to meet someone new. It's being humble and willing to help and willing to learn. It's constantly thinking outward.
How can we cultivate generous thoughts? I think that we can cultivate this behavior and character by genuinely listening to others with the intent to care and love and serve and uplift and encourage and be a friend in everything that we do and everywhere that we go. I think we can become more generous thinkers by praying to see people the way the Lord sees them. I think we can become more generous by always speaking positively.
I think we will have more opportunities to "not suppress" generous thoughts when we are living worthy of the companionship of the Holy Ghost in our lives and following the light of Christ. He teaches us to do good continually (see Mosiah 5:2 and Moroni 7:12-13). I want to be better at seeking an attitude and character of generous thinking in my life! What do you do to cultivate generous thoughts in your life?
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Motivated and Inspired
For some reason I've had a hard time being motivated lately and am lacking much inspiration at the start of this year. I've been looking for a purpose or call to action. I'm always inspired at Church. Like someone said today, it doesn't matter what time church changes to - I'll be there because it's true! :) I'm glad I was there today. I was inspired by many things, but four things in particular were a call to action for me:
1. I was inspired by a lesson about the importance of kindness based on the April 2005 talk by Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, The Virtue of Kindness. If you haven't read it in a while I highly recommend it. It's wonderful and inspiring and what life is all about about! I'm inspired to try to live this message every day this year! Our discussion reminded me of another talk by Elder Wirthlin given just two years later entitled The Great Commandment. You have to watch this one!! Again the main point of his message is charity and love - and the Savior's love and tenderness is exemplified perfectly in so many ways in this talk.
2. Then you can't help but be inspired by the words and teachings of Moses 1 where Moses talks to the Lord face to face and learns he is a son of God just in time to be able to see through Satan's lies. After overcoming Satan he learns more about God's mission for him. I know that God is our Father, we are His children and He has a plan for us. We are His glory. He works to help us return to Him.
3. A comment someone made today solidified in my mind a topic I have been studying lately. Our connections with each other are important - like the giant redwood trees whose roots go out and not down. We need each other to be strong. I just finished reading a wonderful book, The Belonging Heart. The world teaches us to be independent and free by disregarding meaningful connections and relationships. Sitting in Church today and thinking about the redwoods and the people I was listening to and learning from reminded me again of the importance of relationships and community in strengthening and lifting each other.
4. On a related note, I love singing! I love singing with other people. There is power in the words of the hymns that teach the principles of the gospel and Jesus Christ and particularly when we join together to sing no matter our musical ability. I'm inspired by the people of my ward as we sing together. There are many old people who have sung these songs for years. They are not shy in their singing and it's wonderful! Two weeks ago there was a special musical number to finish the meeting - the high priests sang Hark! The Herald Angels Sing. It really touched me watching all these old men walk up to the front of the room and sing with gusto and tenderness. It was probably even sweeter than watching the Primary children sing. Today I was inspired by another song - Do What is Right:
So, I guess my call to action can be summed up in these statements - be kind, know who you are, be connected and do what is right without fear!
1. I was inspired by a lesson about the importance of kindness based on the April 2005 talk by Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, The Virtue of Kindness. If you haven't read it in a while I highly recommend it. It's wonderful and inspiring and what life is all about about! I'm inspired to try to live this message every day this year! Our discussion reminded me of another talk by Elder Wirthlin given just two years later entitled The Great Commandment. You have to watch this one!! Again the main point of his message is charity and love - and the Savior's love and tenderness is exemplified perfectly in so many ways in this talk.
2. Then you can't help but be inspired by the words and teachings of Moses 1 where Moses talks to the Lord face to face and learns he is a son of God just in time to be able to see through Satan's lies. After overcoming Satan he learns more about God's mission for him. I know that God is our Father, we are His children and He has a plan for us. We are His glory. He works to help us return to Him.
3. A comment someone made today solidified in my mind a topic I have been studying lately. Our connections with each other are important - like the giant redwood trees whose roots go out and not down. We need each other to be strong. I just finished reading a wonderful book, The Belonging Heart. The world teaches us to be independent and free by disregarding meaningful connections and relationships. Sitting in Church today and thinking about the redwoods and the people I was listening to and learning from reminded me again of the importance of relationships and community in strengthening and lifting each other.
4. On a related note, I love singing! I love singing with other people. There is power in the words of the hymns that teach the principles of the gospel and Jesus Christ and particularly when we join together to sing no matter our musical ability. I'm inspired by the people of my ward as we sing together. There are many old people who have sung these songs for years. They are not shy in their singing and it's wonderful! Two weeks ago there was a special musical number to finish the meeting - the high priests sang Hark! The Herald Angels Sing. It really touched me watching all these old men walk up to the front of the room and sing with gusto and tenderness. It was probably even sweeter than watching the Primary children sing. Today I was inspired by another song - Do What is Right:
Do what is right; let the consequence follow.Battle for freedom in spirit and might.....Do what is right; be faithful and fearless.Onward, press onward, the goal is in sight.The words were the call to action I needed, but I was particularly inspired to listen to an experienced U.S. Senator sing right behind me with gusto. We each have different opportunities to "battle for freedom" but that is what we're here to do....with faith and without fear! The Lord will protect us as we do what is right. :)
So, I guess my call to action can be summed up in these statements - be kind, know who you are, be connected and do what is right without fear!
Friday, August 23, 2013
Kindness
I have been inspired by examples of kindness and service lately - by people that I don't know and people that they helped that they didn't know. In the midst of a potential tragedy Antoinette Tuff met a gunman at school who was ready to shoot anyone in his path. She courageously met him with love and kindness that disarmed him and saved her and him and many others. I think her example is remarkable. Do we have courage to love our enemies?
I was also touched by a picture of a Spanish emergency worker helping an LDS missionary after a horrible train accident in northern Spain last month. There were many that were hurt and needed assistance from all over the world. A community came together to serve and assist those that desperately needed help. It's moments like this that try us, but also bring communities and individuals together in love - truly as brothers and sisters. I wonder if this man would have opened the door to listen to the missionary's message? He certainly opened his heart to bless and help anyone in need at a moment's notice. That's what it's about! :)
I was also touched by a picture of a Spanish emergency worker helping an LDS missionary after a horrible train accident in northern Spain last month. There were many that were hurt and needed assistance from all over the world. A community came together to serve and assist those that desperately needed help. It's moments like this that try us, but also bring communities and individuals together in love - truly as brothers and sisters. I wonder if this man would have opened the door to listen to the missionary's message? He certainly opened his heart to bless and help anyone in need at a moment's notice. That's what it's about! :)
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
Heroes and Enduring
For some reason lately I've been a little bit overwhelmed thinking about trials and suffering that many people face. I know that there is more than just this life and we don't see and understand the full picture. We all have trials and they can help us grow. The whole reason we're here on this earth is to grow and progress and become more like God, but it can be very hard. Sometimes it just seems like too much and I wonder why and how people go on?
Here are a few things that have inspired me.....
Dancer vows to dance again
Letters to God
College athlete ends sport's career to save man's life
God "love us so much more than He loves our happiness." - President James E. Faust
"As we progress, we learn that while suffering in this life is a universal condition, how we respond to it is a matter of individual choice. And the way we answer life's trials is the basis of our personal growth and discipleship."
"It is for the Lord, not us, to decide the terms of the race of life, including when the race should be over. As long as he lends us breath in mortality, we are to run, even if that means shuffling breathlessly along."
"Eternal life and eternal joy are possible only because of our Savior Jesus Christ and His great and infinite Atonement." - Elder Robert D. Hales
Here are a few things that have inspired me.....
Dancer vows to dance again
Letters to God
College athlete ends sport's career to save man's life
God "love us so much more than He loves our happiness." - President James E. Faust
"As we progress, we learn that while suffering in this life is a universal condition, how we respond to it is a matter of individual choice. And the way we answer life's trials is the basis of our personal growth and discipleship."
"It is for the Lord, not us, to decide the terms of the race of life, including when the race should be over. As long as he lends us breath in mortality, we are to run, even if that means shuffling breathlessly along."
"Eternal life and eternal joy are possible only because of our Savior Jesus Christ and His great and infinite Atonement." - Elder Robert D. Hales
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Bearing one another's burdens....
A couple of experiences this week helped me better understand a part of the promise we make when we are baptized. It says in Mosiah 18:8-10, "As ye are desirous to come into the fold of God, and to be called his people, and are willing to bear one another's burdens, that they may be light; Yea, and are willing to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the first resurrection, that ye may have eternal life--Now I say unto you, if this be the desire of your hearts, what have you against being baptized in the name of the Lord, as a witness before him that ye have entered into a covenant with him, that ye will serve him and keep his commandments, that he may pour out his Spirit more abundantly upon you?"
This is a wonderful scripture with many important reminders. I was inspired this week by a couple of examples -- people who have already done so much good in their lives, people who probably have very few self-inflicted burdens of their own because they have made good decisions, but are then willing to spend a good portion of their time caring for others, helping them, bearing their burdens that they may be light.
I'm sure they still have challenges, worries and concerns of their own. We all do, but they are willing to give more. They have the capacity to help and do. They don't just sit and enjoy the happiness of their good choices and blessings, but look for and accept opportunities to bear others' burdens. The very heartache they have tried to avoid in their lives by their choices and actions are often the exact situations where they go in to mourn with and lift and strengthen others.
As Lucy Mack Smith, mother of the prophet Joseph Smith, said, "We must cherish one another, watch over one another, comfort one another and gain instruction that we may all sit down in heaven together."
I love this and I'm grateful for examples of Christ-like living that strengthen my faith in Him and His gospel. To truly be happy I think we can't be content with sitting down for too long while others need help. It's kind of what it's all about. We find greater happiness for ourselves and are able to share it with others when we pray for, look for and take the opportunities to serve, bless, lift and bear one another's burdens that they may be light.
This is a wonderful scripture with many important reminders. I was inspired this week by a couple of examples -- people who have already done so much good in their lives, people who probably have very few self-inflicted burdens of their own because they have made good decisions, but are then willing to spend a good portion of their time caring for others, helping them, bearing their burdens that they may be light.
I'm sure they still have challenges, worries and concerns of their own. We all do, but they are willing to give more. They have the capacity to help and do. They don't just sit and enjoy the happiness of their good choices and blessings, but look for and accept opportunities to bear others' burdens. The very heartache they have tried to avoid in their lives by their choices and actions are often the exact situations where they go in to mourn with and lift and strengthen others.
As Lucy Mack Smith, mother of the prophet Joseph Smith, said, "We must cherish one another, watch over one another, comfort one another and gain instruction that we may all sit down in heaven together."
I love this and I'm grateful for examples of Christ-like living that strengthen my faith in Him and His gospel. To truly be happy I think we can't be content with sitting down for too long while others need help. It's kind of what it's all about. We find greater happiness for ourselves and are able to share it with others when we pray for, look for and take the opportunities to serve, bless, lift and bear one another's burdens that they may be light.
Monday, September 17, 2012
Lessons from Disneyland
I've enjoyed a couple of spontaneous weekends lately. I'm grateful to be close to family and grateful for the opportunity to spend time with all of my niece and nephews and two of my three siblings and their spouses this last weekend. They are neat people and it was nice to just hang out! :) .....and go to Disneyland!! :) I think there is a lot to learn from family, while traveling and at Disneyland:
2. There is something special about Disneyland. It is one of the happiest places on earth--a place that people come and put other cares out of their mind for a while and focus on having fun, making memories, being with family or friends, being happy and believing in magic and goodness. I thought about the strollers that are left outside many of the rides with people not worrying about them disappearing. For the most part people are very patient and willing to wait. I watched someone who did not speak English stop on their way to try to communicate and help a baby crawling around that was trying to pick up a bee. It would have been very easy to walk by. No one else seemed to be worried, but here people are looking out for others and trying to make the world better and happier. It's pretty remarkable. Aside from church or the temple I really think it's a place that people expect to be happy and kind and so that's the kind of place it is. Why can't we take this attitude with us more often out into the real world!? :)
5. I love the ocean! There is something so wonderful about it. I miss it and need it in my life more often!
6. I need to be more selfless. I am grateful for good examples of selfless love and service and kindness. I think those virtues are learned inherently as parents and spouses. I like watching my siblings be parents. They do a good job and I can see how it has has made them even more selfless and loving. :) I need to work harder at forgetting myself and putting others first. Lately I've felt kind of old and out of place and like something in life has past me by. I'm reminded that regardless of circumstances we are working towards the same goal of being kind and good people. I have a lot I want to be better at and am grateful for examples and opportunities to learn.
I'm grateful for the magic and fun and lessons and inspiration of a weekend in Disneyland, CA. :)
1. Kids are wonderful and adorable and we need to be more like them. They are so sweet and innocent. It's neat to see them grow and learn. I love being reminded of how we need to be like them.
I was so impressed by what two weeks of kindergarten does for a five-year-old and her younger siblings. It was so fun to talk to Kayla and Kai a few days before we left and hear from them the weekend plan and their excitement! :) I loved talking to Kayla about school and watching her go on every ride at Disneyland.....NO FEAR, but some "I don't want to do that again"s. :) I couldn't believe how brave she was! I loved that she wanted to go on "It's a Small World" with me again....and that she would ask what was real or not as we enjoyed the rides, etc.
Driving in the car for several hours it was so fun to talk to Kai about the principles he's learning in one of his favorite books. I was shocked when out of the blue he asks, "What's trustworthy?!?!" :) Was he already learning the scout law? No, but he knew that meant leaving your cookies with a friend and knowing they'd be there when you came back. Later he threw-out the word "openmindedness" and "generous." I'm impressed. It was fun to hang out with him and so sweet to see him so excited to meet Minnie and Mickey....and wave to everyone on the rides he couldn't go on. :)
Mason and Noah are pure joy! After very little sleep and hot sun and hours of walking around in a strange (and sometimes scary) place they were both as smiley and sweet as could be for hours longer than I would have guessed. They are so sweet!
I think this is what we're supposed to be....open, curious, trusting, happy, child-like. :)
I was so impressed by what two weeks of kindergarten does for a five-year-old and her younger siblings. It was so fun to talk to Kayla and Kai a few days before we left and hear from them the weekend plan and their excitement! :) I loved talking to Kayla about school and watching her go on every ride at Disneyland.....NO FEAR, but some "I don't want to do that again"s. :) I couldn't believe how brave she was! I loved that she wanted to go on "It's a Small World" with me again....and that she would ask what was real or not as we enjoyed the rides, etc.
Driving in the car for several hours it was so fun to talk to Kai about the principles he's learning in one of his favorite books. I was shocked when out of the blue he asks, "What's trustworthy?!?!" :) Was he already learning the scout law? No, but he knew that meant leaving your cookies with a friend and knowing they'd be there when you came back. Later he threw-out the word "openmindedness" and "generous." I'm impressed. It was fun to hang out with him and so sweet to see him so excited to meet Minnie and Mickey....and wave to everyone on the rides he couldn't go on. :)
Mason and Noah are pure joy! After very little sleep and hot sun and hours of walking around in a strange (and sometimes scary) place they were both as smiley and sweet as could be for hours longer than I would have guessed. They are so sweet!
I think this is what we're supposed to be....open, curious, trusting, happy, child-like. :)
3. Why we do this to ourselves? Disneyland is full of a lot of people determined to have fun if it kills them. They stay all day and try to do everything they can in order to get their money's worth even on a day of 107 degrees! We're going to stay and we're going to have fun! It would be nice if there was a big lawn to sit down on somewhere. :) The more comfortable way to do Disneyland is probably in two or three or more days, but I think we did amazingly well with our one day. :) California is just a night's drive away. :)
4. I love my family! I wish mom and dad and Josh could have been there too, but it sure was nice for the rest of us to be together and enjoy some vacation time.
6. I need to be more selfless. I am grateful for good examples of selfless love and service and kindness. I think those virtues are learned inherently as parents and spouses. I like watching my siblings be parents. They do a good job and I can see how it has has made them even more selfless and loving. :) I need to work harder at forgetting myself and putting others first. Lately I've felt kind of old and out of place and like something in life has past me by. I'm reminded that regardless of circumstances we are working towards the same goal of being kind and good people. I have a lot I want to be better at and am grateful for examples and opportunities to learn.
I'm grateful for the magic and fun and lessons and inspiration of a weekend in Disneyland, CA. :)
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
I love airports!
I know....that might sound ridiculous, but I really do. :) I love to travel and airplanes are pretty amazing, even with less space and more passengers and lots of security and waiting and no comfortable places to sit or sleep. I like the chance to people watch and think about where everyone is going and what they do. It's such a melting pot of cultures, languages, lives, etc....but we're all brought together in a way that helps people open up to and understand others, I think. It might just be me, but I think it's neat. I think it's a equalizing place in a way, and so much fun....so much to see and learn and think about while crossing paths with people from everywhere going everywhere for so many different reasons.
As I've had the chance to frequent a few airports and airplanes lately here are some of my thoughts:
- Why are we so impatient?
- It's important to be nice, kind - a friendly "hello," "welcome," "thank you" from a stranger really is nice.....or a "happy birthday" from the security checker who notices on my ID that your birthday is the next day :)
- We are more connected than we know. It was kind of fun to watch the RNC in the (SLC) airport and see people getting emotional watching the video introduction to Mitt Romney's speech....people were waiting longer than usual to get on the plane to stay and watch. There was a little less interest in watching responses to his speech in the PHX airport.
- I guess I just really like the community feeling and being around people....my life right now is kind of quiet. :)
As I've had the chance to frequent a few airports and airplanes lately here are some of my thoughts:
- Why are we so impatient?
- It's important to be nice, kind - a friendly "hello," "welcome," "thank you" from a stranger really is nice.....or a "happy birthday" from the security checker who notices on my ID that your birthday is the next day :)
- We are more connected than we know. It was kind of fun to watch the RNC in the (SLC) airport and see people getting emotional watching the video introduction to Mitt Romney's speech....people were waiting longer than usual to get on the plane to stay and watch. There was a little less interest in watching responses to his speech in the PHX airport.
- I guess I just really like the community feeling and being around people....my life right now is kind of quiet. :)
Saturday, June 4, 2011
Inspired! :)
I was inspired today by being a part of the community in a special way--I volunteered for a few hours helping at one of the information booths at the Susan G. Komen Global Race for the Cure on the National Mall! I've enjoyed several events kind of like this in the past as a runner, but this was very different. I enjoyed watching all of the people there to celebrate and support. It wasn't about winning--it was about raising money for an important cause and being there as a support for others. It was very inspiring and kind of emotional to stand there near the starting line and watch thousands and thousands of people walk together united around each other and a cause to lift and help others....and watch many people fill out cards indicating who they were remembering.
I love the sense of community and unitedness...people from all over the world and all political backgrounds and walks of life reaching out and being kind. Here is a short video of part of last year's event that shows some of the fun of the day! :)
I also enjoyed learning from others as I was volunteering. Some people are so kind and nice. They call you by name and thank you personally for the small bit of information you share. :) It made me think again about how I treat those that I don't know each day in my interactions. We really are all here together. We can be such a support and lift to someone else's day....even in very small ways. Smile. Say "Thank you." Be kind. I was inspired by the strength, courage and examples of those around me. It really is all about loving each other....and helping each other through out trials. :) It also reminded me again of the faith and strength of my wonderful mother! :)
I was reminded that I really love volunteering. I love helping people find where they need to go (especially around the National Mall). I love being a part of a community and looking for small ways to be involved and make a difference. :)
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